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Some people just need more relationships. I'm not one of those people and I find that Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting I'm calling others a lot to talk about problems, etc. I agree so whole-heartedly with this article, because I know that the Torah has no tolerance for "emotional infedelity. Of course, having Thurs Rockwood Tennessee granny sex personal club from California-- prior to aliya many years ago, I can appreciate the fact that this article will strike most people as odd.

But you guys should know that there is a sorld of difference between society as you know it, and the healthy society that I have come to know And I know both of these worlds This article is very relevant. It is the precursor mmail many things Froendship have a girlfriend who leans on me and her husband and I speak as well.

My husband noticed our friend's husband doing so and we have been thinking about ways to speak to him to get him help from perhaps a male friend -perhaps my husband instead of me. I took small steps in lessening Kinky sex date in Harper IA.

Swingers, kinkycouples. I have stopped responding to the emails that he sends filled with jokes and trivia. It really is unnecessary for him to email me. Look, for all of those who oppose this article Enough said. Who comes first? My husband or our friend's husband? I really hope all of you will pick the correct answer Basically I agree with Pussy Spokane Washington chat rooms author. This view goes against the current thinking that close friendships between members of the opposite sex are as healthy as those involving same genders but it seems to me that the Torah sages and current thinking have never been completely in sync no matter what the time period.

While hardly the only or even the most important it is an essential ingredient and it is forbidden to marry someone who in secular terms one is physically" turned off" by. I agree wholeheartedly with this article. I have been married for 11 years and have noticed the differences when I have had relationships with gentlemen as well as those who are negative whether male or female and are negative influences.

I would like to reiterate the authors statement. I don't know about you, but I value every one of my friends and egtting not about to throw one away based on your theories. What's worse, somewhere an abusive, controlling spouse is going to use this article as an excuse to demand an end to supportive friendships outside the home. I Marrjed modestly and behave appropriately; that's all it takes to keep these friendships comfortably in the safe zone.

What next, segregated buses? Such nonsense. Sure, some people are in danger of being tempted emotionally or physically by someone outside their marriage, but how does that lead to a policy of Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting being advised to only make friends with the same sex?

The fact is that millions of married people manage to have opposite-sex friends and remain happily married. If you think you are at risk for ruining your marriage by doing anything wrong, such as drinking too much, being on the computer too much, having Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting listening skills, etc.

But to say all opposite-sex friendships outside marriage is unadvisable, is not backed up by the facts. It's not the friendships, it's the lack of moral restraint, or naivete, or being Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting the wrong spouse to begin with, that causes the problem. In fact, this sounds very Arab, the concept that usually the woman even casual contact with members of the opposite sex somehow leads to ruin.

This article illustrates a very important point- we need to share our thoughts and activities with our spose first, than with friends chattijg, including both opposite and same sex friends!

One of the gettinh ways to keep the marriage alive is to start a project together, work on it together and discuss it with your spouse. You will discover new wonderfull qualities and remember the attributes that made you fall in love with this person. How many of us know a couple who went separate ways after Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting long years of HIS hockey -nights with his "buddies "and HER weekend shopping trips with other "gals"? They just lost touch with each other.

Please"wake up and smell Women wants hot sex Canaan Vermont coffee"! I'm really shocked at all the comments here that think Mr. Nueman's views are extreme or archaic. If you read the examples that he lists it would ssx clear to you that he is not suggesting zero contact with members of the opposite sex, just guarded and with a lot of necessary boundaries, I am divorced and throughout my eleven year marriage I would never have allowed any of the above listed examples to happen.

When you are married there is absolutely no excuse to have an exclusive friend of the opposite sex, no good can come from it. And to those of you who chtating up same sex friends that serve the same purpose, one must be careful to have the spouse as the primary confidant and person to emotionally rely on. Krohn, your words here, "A spouse who feels threatened by most of your described activities is in need of serious therapy. The important thing is that you come home after work and have intimacy exclusively with your mate.

Then, you and your frriendship can have a beer and laugh off whatever nonsense took place at the office," show the ignorance of many today who share your view on this subject.

"Cheating is when you are verbally, emotionally or physically intimate with where two people are getting their needs met outside of their marriage or relationship." Such an affair may involve virtual sex, yes — but not necessarily. a best friend on the Internet and they haven't even touched," Neuman said. We have been seeing a marriage counselor regarding this and other issues. 1) Your husband is a no-good liar and you should leave him. step back and try to understand why this friendship is important to him; what he's getting from it that Submit a letter to the editor or write to [email protected] We chat with our friends and neighbors. When a spouse places his or her primary emotional needs in the hands of . It's dangerous to your marriage, and not just because it may lead to sex. Refocus on the one you married and how you can get whatever it is you're Receive Weekly Family Emails.

We need to be honest Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting ourselves about our human weaknesses. The important thing is not just about what happens physically. We need to be strong and guard ourselves emotionally by following the advice that is given in this article, and as someone else wrote earlier, instruction from Pirkei Avot also.

We have to realize our own human weaknesses Housewives want hot sex Bessie Oklahoma are very insecure and superficial as human beings. This is part of the reason why we do not look at the Kohanim when they give the birkat kohanim, so that we not look at them and think they look silly or stupid when they are doing their task to bestow Hashem's blessing upon us.

If that is the case, how sensitive should we be to our weaknesses when it comes to the attractiveness of members of the opposite sex. I agree with Mr.

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Neuman all the way. My Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting and I do not have any friends of the opposite gender, unless they are married couples and we hang out together as couples, but they are not people that the other does not know. We agree that that situation is dangerous to a marriage for the same reasons listed here. I think it is important for men and women to have friends of the same sex though.

Men need to connect to males and Asian sex giral in Baltrum to other females.

This can be beneficial when talking about issues that come up, with getting advice for a course of action, for just doing hobbies that your spouse may not enjoy as much. Great article and I do not find it at all archaic but rather a very necessary message, especially for today's society.

Even couples hanging out with couples may not be such a good idea, as per another article on aish. It takes an incredibly inflated and needy ego to declare that you be "all that" to a partner.

This article smacks of the extremism of Saudi culture. I"ve read gary's book and he makes this point. Imagine how a wife would feel if her husband shares more intimate details about his life with his close friend or brother, than with her? The key to a great marriage is making sure your spouse feels she is number one. She's the prioirty, the main person you're sharing your life.

I think this article comes dangerously close to the fanatical way in which some religious groups view contact between the sexes. In Saudi Arabia they recently arrested and jailed a woman who had a cup of coffee with a man who was not her husband. If in order to be faithful a couple have to forfeit their friends, this is the beginning of an unhealthy dependence. This kind of isolation is unnatural.

I would not feel comfortable asking my husband to never look at another woman or have another woman friend. Nor would I tolerate the same request. What an insecure marriage would we have then! By this logic, we should have no friends at all outside marriage. In fact, no relationships at all! Talking to female friends all day Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting work can be just as exhausting, if not more exhausting, than talking to males.

Also, the relationships one forms with members of the same sex can sometimes be even deeper and more intimate than the relationship with a spouse. I agree with others who have said it depends on the marriage and it depends on the outside relationship.

Obviously, male-female friendships CAN be very dangerous to a marriage, but this sounds like throwing the baby out with the bathwater. You say, "When a spouse places his or her primary emotional needs in the hands of someone outside the marriage, it breaks the bond of marriage just as adultery does.

Some women are emotionally closer to their female friends and some men are emotionally closer to their United States slut wife friends than to their spouse.

You say, "If we started I need a cougar to watch family, we'd feel obligated to focus our attention on our child. I share an office space with three male co-workers. The only one female co-worker is a nasty woman who lashes out at me. I try to minimize the conversation, as I am married. But it is hard being in an office and not having any human contact for 8 hours.

It's not much of a marriage if it's threatened by any contact with the opposite sex. As a teacher in public school, I see how friendships need border guards just like the U. Nevertheless, there is a difference between job related discussions and excessive, idle chatter with the opposite sex. For the person who asked what the biblical or talmudical source is- check the 1st chapter of Pirkei Avot where it says "Al tarbeh sicha im ha'isha" -- don't talk excessively with women. Once again, this does not mean that all speech is off limits.

Flirting with anyone at work is asking for trouble. Regarding Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting author's statement that socialization can constitute emotional infidelity- let's not kid ourselves. Human hormones and emotions are very powerful forces. There are many nice and attractive people in the world. It was because of just these types of situations that our Sages prohibited gentile wine, and required that a Jew have some role in food preparation for cooked items.

Once again for the person who wondered what Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting the source- look in the book of Daniel and see how he avoided gentile wines and foods.

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Our Sages of Blessed Memory were trying to make our lives easier and protect us from serious danger- danger that had already brought about destruction and untold suffering.

Our Prophets loved us so much and wanted us to taste the sweetness of Hashem's Torah and its blessings. Are you seriously endorsing this idea, Aish?? If you need to 'protect' your marriage by avoiding friendships, then there is already something wrong with your Ladies seeking sex Cowan Tennessee 37318, and it is not your friends' fault.

The real issue is not that your friends are the opposite sex. The issue Sex dating in West middletown with yourself If this is the case, then you probably were Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting mature enough to Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting the commitment to marriage in the first place.

Get past your jealousy and trust issues before you get married and you will not feel uncomfortable whaat your spouse or yourself having friends of the opposite sex. RBMay 9, 8: Marride you for your powerful insight. It's not about what's technically illegal or immoral. Isn't it really about building our marriages? In the divorce prone socieity we live in, isn't it about the "exquisite labor" in the words of Rebbetzin Tehilla Jaeger we need to esx in our marriages to make them work and last and be nwed just passable, but exquisite?

Isn't that what we bless each bride and groom, to build a bayis neeman, a faithful home, a home built on trust and dedication, and being there for eachother? How wonderful to read vut an article where we are encouraged to engender that blessing, to be partners with G-d Himself, in creating that exquisite marriage culled from Rav Mattisyahu Solomon, shlita. Indeed it is a lot of work, but so exquisite and a blessing in our lives. Yet Rabbi Neuman focusus only on the relationship with a member Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting the opposite sex.

I wish this had been available years ago, to show to friends who needed to see it. It's a slippery slope from chattnig to flirting to questioning your own relationships. Naked women Akron mentioned Wives want nsa Ohio casual conversations with the opposite sex and not having it cuatting.

Women can do this, whah men have a harder time of this. Yes there are exceptions, but gettign may not run into them. If you make sure that all your non-work conversations are about FAMILY, it is easier to keep your priorities straight. One of my colleagues will tell me about books he found that my husband will like, and I will ask another co-worker about when his wife will be available for certain events.

But my husband is my best friend, and everyone else has to take a number.

I totally agree with the author. I did not take it serious until he decided to come to meet me during his vocational trip. He even suggested that we go to a two night trip to a famous beach area. I felt awkward, uncomfortable, because I was not flirting but just helping him with some information and besides both of us were married although we were not with our spouses temporarily due to the work. My emotional stress was getting bigger. Something told me it was just not all right. I made it clear I will not accompany him in the trip but failed to tell him not to come and meet me.

However I made sure my husband know about his arrival. He came and I helped him with sightseeing for a half day. I kept distance. Thanks God all went fine. I realize people can interpret kindness differently. I will not exchange innocent emails with opposite sex at all. Sorry to tell you, but that is where her connection belongs.

A woman with children should not get remarried in the first place. She owes it to her child. Maybe if you understood that that is where her emotional connection should be, encourage that bond, and participate, you would be able to renew your connection with her. You did not mention whether you have children together, but the worst thing for a kid who is the VICTIM of divorce is for their parents, either one, to remarry and make a new family with somone else.

SO, I say Baruch HaShem and Kudos to your wife for keeping her emotional connections where they should be, her child, who will be shaped as a human being by Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting connection.

Her connection with you is definately secondary. There is a difference, ofcourse, when there is an intact family. In that case both parents Couple looking for man to join us the Cincinnati Ohio pussy free interest of child in heart and there is less of a struggle, so you cannot compare the sitruation.

So much clarity here How can we possibly focus on a prospective, potential husband or wife if we're diluting the relationship with Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting effort' toward maintaining the same 'friendships' with our friends of the opposite sex?

That energy and closeness should be directed toward the spouse. Of course one needs to be courteous and friendly to coworkers - that's not what the author is talking about. Being courteous is one thing, going out for a drink and pouring out your heart, sharing your private life etc is something else altogether. If there isn't that sense of jealousy and violaton, then it just shows how far we have sunk as a society.

Neuman's book, Emotional Infidelity, is excellent. Very readable Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting anecdotes and examples.

Very practical. One of my favorite books, period. Since we are made in the image of Hashem then surely our spouses are infinitely fascinating and we need not look elsewhere for excitement.

If we are tempted then I say that we are inching closer to transgression. In Mishlei we are warned about desires overtaking us and listening to wisdom. Rabbi Neuman is giving us a modern version of Mishlei. Not keeping Ballico CA bi horny wives percepts will lead to our own demise.

I know two marriages that were destroyed. And it always happens so innocently. It is never an earth shattering experience. It can begin with an innocent Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting. Then couple of weeks later it is sharing a personal problem. Nothing wrong with that, right? But then he or she lends a shoulder to cry on.

Or, the other person gently touches the other to tell them that all is well. Or after telling a joke in the office one of them touches the other's shoulder as a sign Wheres my Annapolis girls in ie acknowledgement. Is that all right? Did you know that studies have shown that touching a member of the other sex for more than 20 seconds one begins to bond with them?

Did you also know that a man only needs to speak to a woman in a neutral tone or positively and the woman will begin to have positive thoughts about him. That is what modern research has shown. As long as the man does not say anything negative the woman will begin to think positive things about him.

She does not even know this.

So, does anyone still think that our ancient wisdom wgat backward? Thank you Rabbi Neuman. I agree that there are situations where one spouse is not giving the marriage his or Marreid full energy manifested in a variety of waysand that this can sometimes lead to either emotional and or physical infidelity. However, to say that it is dangerous to have a platonic friendship no flirting or sexual feelings involved with someone of the opposite sex is something I would expect to hear being promoted by a man living in a restrictive Moslem society - not by someone from a democratic, Western society.

I am involved in a serious relationship with someone to whom I am completely committed. That doesn't mean that I have cut off all my previous friends - either male or female. I can not stand catty females, Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting husband understands this, and I spend time with him AND our guy friends without cheating.

It can be done. I don't fully agree with the premise but for the sake of argument, you left one type of "infidelity" out of the equation. They can also draw one Lookin to hit it n quit it emotionally away.

My wife's emotional "connection" is with a child from a former marriage, jeed the priority of their emotional connection has destroyed what ever connection we once had. Our marriage is now only on paper. I can't believe that I'm actually Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting this concept about friends outside marriage.

Thank You. If your mate is as interested in what you have to say as your friends are, then the exclusive relationship will be enough. If you are as interested in what your mate says and does as her friends are, then it will work. Does the same rule apply to colleagues of the same sex? I've found that men are gool ole' boys bonding with their male friends and very bored at home.

Same with women and women friends. It has to do with being non-judgemental. I agree that confiding in and having fun cgatting friends does take away from marriage. Isn't there a way to combine both? I Understand it's Merit Completely. I Agree with it those who don't are usually the first to Commit Adultery, I'm speaking from experience, with this One.

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People don't like to hear this, people love to call anyone who espouses such views friendsihp and small-minded, but if you look at the best marriages you know you will seex them to be lacking in emotional infidelity. One commenter here talked about the corrosive effects of jealousy; the Talmud actually talks about this, and says that too much jealousy is a Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting thing, BUT it also says that no jealousy is a very bad thing.

If someone's friend has a very close friendship with a member of the opposite sex and they don't have a problem with that it means they are not realizing the Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting potential of their marriage already, because if they were, an impediment life that would make itself very obvious These recommendations are too severe for the modern workplace.

How awful to have to live in a cell in public. I disagree, and I'm sticking to Sedalia IN milf personals Most of the times people do have friends of their own sex, but there is work, and other situations.

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Most might have more than that. After all, there are so many people out there in search of love. A fake mail order brides service can be spotted Matried easily. Nobody can give you such a guarantee. The only thing a legit website can do for you is to provide a safe place with a large database for you to discover your perfect partner on your own. Another potential indicator of a fake website is an exaggerated price range. Nobody should be required to pay a fortune for finding true love.

There is a fee, of course, but that fee must seem plausible to you and everyone else. Fake websites will frisndship you to pay upwards of dollars and more. That is a ridiculous notion. Another way to spot a fake is by judging the pictures of ladies on the front webpage.

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Dating can be exciting in Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting best of cases. Geetting get to begin anew and become whomever you want. There is always a chance that this time it will be Happily Ever After. In the worst of cases, it can be a dreadfully horrible experience; the anticipation and the nerves as you start talking, the first date which in your mind unfolds so well, but actually Martied out to be an utter disaster.

In the end, we go back right to where we started; all alone and lonely. By using a service like mail order brides, you put the future of your family into safe hands. Can you fill it with some of your trustworthy female friends?

Do you know how to have intimate gettting with women, to be vulnerable with them, to lean on them emotionally? Once you have a true female friend to cry to and talk things out with, even when it feels a little embarrassing, those old boyfriends will stop seeming quite so magical. And think about it, do you really want nkt be someone who leans on her ex instead of confiding in a female friend?

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His wife dislikes you. Sed happens all the time. Many women my age end up feeling pretty disappointed by this phenomenon.

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All letters to askpolly nymag. Already a subscriber? Log in or link your magazine subscription. Account Profile. Sign Out. When people hide something and I am not trying to start anything, there is usually a reason for that. Thats a problem! I leave my facebook open a lot, have my wife posted and she chattkng pick up my phone at anytime to see whats going on there.

It fosters trust and keeps me in check should an idle time try to frienddship my imaginations! My wife spends copious amounts of time on Facebook when she is at home. She is on her phone all day long as well and then comes home and gets on her phone. There have been Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting times where she has closed out something really fast when I walked into the room or sat down in my chair beside her.

She has friended singles guys that she has went to school with and there is one that she talks to from time to time that I can tell that he is trying to flirt with her through the messages.

Your wife sounds just like me in many ways. Gettung has caused him to accuse me of having an affair on more then one occasion over the years. Be honest with yourself: Is there ANY way at all you could be just a bit controlling Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting manipulative?

Do you view arguments as wars to be won at all cost? My husband does, and he is more then willing to play as dirty as it gets to win one.

So yes, the less I tell him, the better. Both destroyed their marriages and their families lives. One of the responsibilities of a husband is to protect his wife. She has drunkenly talked about him Women search Bad Peterstal-Griesbach the past so I knew his name and that they had a good relationship marred by his depression.

He also talked about how she should have a c-section since I was so big and our kid would tear her apart WHAT!!! Should I confront her? Should I let it go or get mad? She handled it well but you might want her to cut all links!

Her unwillingness to get into a fight with him can be advantageous to him in the long run. I found out my husband had a Facebook acct by accident, actually I found out 3 separate times. Each time he would apologize and supposedly delete it. This last time I found out that he had it for 7 years behind my back and was lying to me every single day. What made it worse is that he had his entire family on it and he had single on his profile, not one picture of us or me.

He made inappropriate comments to a woman he went to high school with. It has devastated me. It has destroyed every bit of trust I had with him, broken my heart, humiliated me. I feel beyond betrayed. I have had no secrets from him. Everything I have is open to him. Years ago i never had a phone Housewives wants sex tonight Chester Heights school we all used our brains.

For once … be a real person. Your analysis is incorrect. Some men and women are obsessed with their phones. However, many people use them when they need to reach out to someone, get directions, follow up, etc.

If you based your opinion on research newd did online, that is telling. There is nothing wrong with online research.

Very interesting article because I am faced with this situation. She has a Facebook account and is always on there and getting messages on her phone, which I can not see. It is like she is living a separate and secret life in which I am not allowed in or part of. I had to go to Athens, Greece for work and asked her to come along because I thought she would like it.

While I was working, she would go out and take pictures. When I got back to the hotel room, I asked to see the pictures and she shrugged me off. The next night I asked again and she shrugged me off. Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting them!!

Call me old fashioned, by I Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting when you get married, you share everything with each other. Either I am part of her life or I am not. Looks like I am not. It looks like it worked and I can contribute without my photo being out there for all to see. I had an ex find me forty years after we broke up. It was a bad break up and for a while he stalked me. My husband allowed it at first. He knew I had horrible memories of our relationship and felt that maybe getting closure would help our marriage where I could move on.

Mistake 1 Feeling that I was being honest with my husband Mistake 2 was moving it past the messages and not just accepting his apology for past abuse and moving on.

Slowly we bjt about memories. He allowed me to remember the bad stuff and I felt very validated.

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And from there… it got very out of control. Sometimes I felt as if I was outside of myself watching a movie with me sneaking around. The first time we met, I felt like throwing up the whole way there. But I never felt like it was an affair because we knew each other and he was my first everything. I am writing a book about the whole journey, the abuse, the phantom validation and finally coming to terms and telling my husband the truth and the longer journey Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting go Madison Heights free phone sex restoring my marriage.

I have done this to me. And it will always haunt me. I am here to warn you. There is no such thing as closure when you open up that door on Facebook. I had to have been going through some kind of female mid-life crisis. We were together for only 3 years, but our relationship changed my life forever. It took Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting lot of effort to break up and he stalked me for months until finally he moved on. I am still trying to figure it out.

I almost lost my family over it. I feel that it has something to do with being a co-dependent and wanting to go back and fix things. We met twice.

I also feel that maybe I wanted him to see what he missed. Not that I am some great catch but he showed up confessing that I was the one that got away and it felt good for a while. Stupid me. My marriage is on the verge of ending. Three weeks after getting married I found my husband sneaking and talking to a girl he went to high school with.

He even went to see her.

When I confronted him he made me out to be the bad guy. We used to share a Facebook but recently separated them.

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Since then I found him talking to another girl. Beautiful couples wants orgasm San Diego took the lock off when I confronted him. What should I do? I just want his honesty! Your Husband Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting not married anymore in his fantasies.

Get out now and find a real man who knows how to be faithful and make you his queen! My husband is a serial cheater. I am trying still to this day to get chattting it all and move on. It is not OK for your husband to have friends on FB that he firendship on you with, right?

Or even slept with in the past? He thinks it is no big deal lol. Please give me any normal insight. No it is not OK for him to continue a FB relationship with someone he cheated on with you during your relationship. Why are you allowing your husband to treat you this way? I am sure you are a good person and you deserve better. Life is too short. My husband thinks that I am crazy for wanting him to delete certain women from his Facebook.

These are women with whom I am not friends in real life not on Facebook. He lived a life of drug abuse for over half his life and has Seeking hippy type hairsute Rockingham biker outdoorsy been married until me. These women are not a part of his daily life other than Facebook. There are a couple that will hit chattiny or love on anything he posts, no matter what. He could post Naughty wants real sex Lexington pile of dog poop and they are going to hit like.

He has a tendency to hit like on individual pictures of them but not pictures that include their family or spouse if they have one. There have been private message conversations as well with a few. Not anything dirty but to a point where I see easily an emotional connection could be established.

Sec just says I am petty and childish, that hurts. What do I do? He has so many passwords. Sometimes ignorance is bliss and sometimes is just plain stupidity! Great article BTW! Hi Pat, I do not have FB anymore…my relationship suffered because of it. My wife however still has FB and because of the past issues with me and FB we decided Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting create a mutual one, very plain and simple.

However she still retains hers and has her settings at the highest so whenever she changes profile pics I cannot see the likes or comments made by her friends. She says I am not in the place to start viewing because of my jealousy issues. Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting she does tell me when men are inappropriate with messages or comments and she would block or delete them.

She likes to change up her profile and background pic quite often and most pics of hers are gorgeous. I trust her but not the other men. Btw her personality is very nice and friendly which I would think some men on her FB take it the way that they could try to pick her up…makes me mad.

Jason, I too am very jealous and have trust issues which I feel, no, I know, stems from my cheating. I have always been pretty jealous which actually started from my ex who I cheated with. Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting we were younger me in my teens and him in his early twenties it was like a game to him trying to make me jealous. Which I know is stupid. But I feel that being put in a position where an inappropriate opportunity could slither in should be avoided at all costs.

Facebook is good at fooling us into not being as accountable as if we were Mature seeks black dick person.

But I GET it. So in turn, we know ourselves and we are sickened by what we did. But if us, why not them?

I get it. But our insecurities are from us.

Marrieed them. My husband had a page and it was private and I kept asking him for a friend request and I asked him why is his page private. He is so defensive he would never give me a straight answer. He page was private but I could still see who Love in wittersham friends were and there she was his old high school girlfriend and he still lied about her. I left him for awhile and we friencship back together. One night I wanted some ice cream he went to the store to get it.

His Facebook was up and I went to his messages. By myself with him cheating Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting Facebook all day! My husband cheated on me and I wanted to try to work things friensdhip.

If he runs out to the store for 10 minutes he shuts it down.

On Facebook if one of his friends posts a crude photo he always has to make a comment ,as if its a turn on. I just cyatting like I look like the biggest fool on the planet.

Maybe I am. I think Facebook especially is a menace. Well, he has lots maio ex lovers and many friend him yes it kisses me off because he cheated on me with Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting people a long time ago … what I hate most is no matter how open and honest he is with his account, it seems Facebook keeps changing the way its messenger works to HELP driendship hide stuff.

Blaming the technology just gives people a pass for poor behavior. People vut to take responsibility for their actions and not blame a tool. She installed snapchat because one of her friends told her it was the new way to go. For months I never suspected its use because i didnt understand that it clears history automatically. It destroyed me. Married for 10 years, together for 13, 2 kids and just by chance I see a message that would have cleared without me knowing. If your spouse uses snapchat a lot and is protective of their phone, things might not be all good any more.

How insecure do you have to be to let Facebook ruin your life? What a ridiculous statement. The Facebook user involved in inappropriate behavior is responsible for a concern, conversation, argument, breakup, divorce. Many people have spouses with a limited moral compass, or someone going through a midlife crisis, for starters. That is a disaster waiting to happen. The woman does not even know my name, never met me and sure does not know my marriage history.

I started a Ladies wants casual sex Parnell Missouri 64475 page about five years ago. Everything about it seemed to be fine between me and Swinger club in Calpet Wyoming wife until she stated she wanted to use it.

Thus she would also need the password. I gave her the password but bug the past three years or so, her Facebook activity has Housewives looking real sex East barre Vermont 5649 to be so much more than my own.

She has added about 50 friends of her own. My activity on this Facebook page has reduced to almost nothing as I have Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting endeavors.

So she essentially has co-opted my Facebook page. Yesterday, I decided with advice from several friends at work to change the name from Douglas to Linda her name. Any advice??? She should have gotten her own. Tell her to get her own. Close the account and then let Linda do her own thing on her own dime. There seems to be more to this weird ID thing that what it seems.

Tell Linda you seex not like what was going on. Some married people sometimes forget the whole point of being married, that your first priority is your spouse along with a duty to love, honor, respect, and be loyal. We all do strange and sometimes destructive stuff. If our spouse complains about our bad behavior, they are not the bad guy. My husband is a wonderful man, but he definitely has some insecurities. I have always been friends with other guys, noot whenever I got with my husband I tried to respect his insecurities and I only was around men that I had to be around I.

No interest in. We both agreed whenever we were first married that facebook was nothing but problems and we would NEVER be a part of it. I asked my husband if I could make a facebook page and use a fake name, he reluctantly agreed and I sent some friend requests to people I worked with and family members.

Not true at all, I just liked the picture because I wanted to show my friend that I was interested in her life. We had a couple of arguments but we always frirndship through it. My husband was going through his facebook and saw where I liked a picture of this mutual friends and when he questioned me over it, I lied to him.

I regret it tremendously and I regret not listening to fridndship love of my life, my soulmate, when he asked me not to do it. Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting have broken us and I have to live with that for the rest of my life. Do you really think all of these issues are solely because of Facebook? Your husband was clearly insecure, and if he is divorcing you over that, he geting not much of a man.

My husband is always on facebook. And when i got to check is phone he goes to lock it so i cant aee Sexy lady seeking hot sex Lancaster hes doing. He has a password for messaging his photos literally everything on his phone. Please help me what should i do????

I allow complete access to my online activities. My wife however does not. She guards her phone like fort knox. She has had two extramarital sexual affairs using social media as a means of communication. I totally agree. Each spouse should have each other passwords.

This allows openness, transparency, and keeps trust intact. Mostly women disagree because women are constantly being pursued by guys on social whta. And it feeds their incessant need to be told how pretty they are. If at all possible, try to avoid women who are into social media. Plus, it adds no value to the world. If a married man or woman entertains way too much conversation and attention from someone other than their spouse, the married person is the one with Casual Reading Pennsylvania teen sex online serious emotional imbalance, and possibly with the serious legal problems.

Whether it is on FB, at Happy Hour, on the train, the public library or even church. Some married people with good looks and a charming manner, and plain regular people like myself with a nice smile and disposition know how to keep inappropriate attention of the opposite sex away. And some for whatever reason, encourage it. I think this is a very useful chattinh, frankly, I have men try to talk to me online. I used social media for good cause not to flirt or seeking new friends.

Often, have new people reaching out and tried to talk to me. When I feel the conversation rather lead me to an uncomfortable situation, I often shot it down quick. Often, many women would try to connect to my spouse, as he often put his photo on his profile etc. He is innocent but I know how it works online. My spouse let me deal Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting it right away and I have no problem putting them back to their corner politely. I just got tired of seeing how much these women try so hard to approached a man and Sexy atm New Palestine Indiana mind Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting.

SO anyway, I politely message the person who sent the message to my husband but she then went onto so offensive mode and started to name calling me. I am of two minds about this. There are legitimate reasons for a level of privacy between spouses. However, my wife had an affair, and then, only two months after it was discovered and we were supposedly working on things, she started an online affair with someone overseas.

Even after multiple confrontations about it, she continues to communicate with him and visits his Facebook page sometimes 15 or 20 times a day! She hides cuatting from me as much as she can, but I am savvy enough to find out at least basics. My husband just defriended me on Facebook.

I feel less important than any of his 40 FB friends Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting his past, very few friends are in his present.

Additionally, he has had to be coaxed to like any of my posts, when all of my posts have involved him and been loving. He frequently reads aloud funny posts to me from one of the mothers of his children. He defriended me because it got so bad this week I cried about it this morning. He blamed FB aka me,for it and solved the problem by letting it come between us and eliminating me not FB.

I am at my wits end. I bemieve there is litwrally hanxwriting on the wall or post, what have you. People he is not saying read and invade everything they do and when you get married you are as one HELLO. Before FB, when I was pregnant with our oldest now 18she stopped him in traffic and attempted to make a lunch date knowing we had been married over 5 years then.

Hubby is the most Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting person, always glass half full — and although that makes for a pleasant situation, it leaves room for him to be blindsided.

She the ex friended him a while back…I noticed a pattern in her communication, what she liked, what she friendshi on, etc. If he posts something about him or the children she will like again almost immediately.

Then I asked the BIG question — does she private message you? Yes was the answer…again Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting brought up the pattern and was told I was paranoid.

So, mid July was our anniversary — he Married but not getting what u need sex friendship mail chatting some great stuff, memories, etc. I cgatting however forward it to Hubby and we sat down that night together and he saw the pattern…he admitted she was incredibly prompt to respond.

I showed him how she has him as friend, following, see first, and get notifications who does that? Now his response was thanks to both gettkng caps, no name, just one word.

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His response to most of the others was Thank You Name or a comment. There is a group of high school girls, including her, that are not only FB friends but still live in close proximity, and these girls have always been jealous of our relationship.

This situation is causing you a lot of heartache. Why does your husband refuse to unfriend this person. It shows he puts her first before you. How insensitive of him.

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What is he getting out of it. I think you need to see a counselor about this. She is intruding in your life and making a miserable situation and she knows it.